VIDEO: Can you hold space for ALL your feelings?

Jan Normanton • October 12, 2023

Can you hold the space for the challenging thoughts, the ruminations and catastrophisations of your mind and the tension and restrictions these create in your body -  AS WELL AS noticing - how you feel truly in your body right now.


Can you come into the present moment, find space in your body, areas of expansion and a sense of wellbeing? Notice these areas, breathe into them, allow those feelings of wellbeing to expand and may you come to realise and more importantly feel, we are safe, in our body, in the here and now. We can hold space for all of our feelings.

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